What Foster Grandparents Do

A foster grandparent is an older adult volunteer who spends regular time with a child who needs mentoring, companionship, and stability. You might read to a child at school, help with homework, attend their sports events, or straightforward be a consistent adult presence in their life. The role is not about replacing a parent — it is about being an extra caring adult who shows up.

Foster grandparents work through formal programs that match you with children in your community. The most established is the Foster Grandparent Program, run by AmeriCorps Seniors (formerly Senior Corps). Other programs operate through local nonprofits, schools, and child welfare agencies. Each has its own structure, but all focus on pairing an older volunteer with a child who benefits from one-on-one attention.

The time commitment varies. Some programs ask for 15 to 20 hours per week; others are more flexible. You might volunteer at a school, in a child's home, at a community center, or through a mentoring organization. The key is regular contact — children thrive when they know you will be there.

Key Takeaways

  • The Foster Grandparent Program through AmeriCorps Seniors is the largest national program and operates in most states, though local programs also exist in many communities.
  • You must be at least 55 years old and willing to commit to regular weekly contact with a child, usually 15 to 20 hours per week.
  • Background checks and training are required before you begin; the program covers these steps and provides ongoing support.
  • Some Foster Grandparent Program volunteers receive a small monthly stipend to help cover expenses, though this varies by program and location.
  • The best first step is to contact your local AmeriCorps Seniors office or search for foster grandparent programs through your city or county social services department.

Finding the Foster Grandparent Program Near You

The AmeriCorps Seniors Foster Grandparent Program operates in all 50 states and serves thousands of children. To find the program in your area, visit the AmeriCorps Seniors website and use their program locator tool, or call 1-800-424-8867 to speak with someone who can direct you to your local office. They can tell you whether the program is currently taking new volunteers and what the next steps are.

If AmeriCorps Seniors does not have an opening near you, or if you want to explore other options, contact your city or county social services department. Many communities run their own foster grandparent or senior mentoring programs through schools, libraries, or child welfare agencies. A call to your local 211 service (dial 2-1-1 or visit 211.org) will connect you with volunteer opportunities in your area, including foster grandparent roles.

When you reach out, ask about the time commitment, the age range of children you would work with, where you would volunteer, and whether there is a waiting list. Some programs have more children waiting for a match than they have volunteers, so you may be able to start soon. Others may have a short wait.

Age, Background, and What Programs Look For

You must be at least 55 years old to volunteer as a foster grandparent through the AmeriCorps Seniors program. Some local programs may have different age requirements, so ask when you contact them. Beyond age, programs look for reliability, patience, and a genuine interest in spending time with a child.

All programs require a background check before you begin. This is standard for any role involving children. You will be asked about criminal history, and the program will verify your information. If you have concerns about your background, discuss them with the program coordinator when you first contact them — they can explain what will disqualify you and what will not.

You do not need prior experience working with children, teaching experience, or special skills. What matters is showing up consistently and being willing to listen, encourage, and be present. Programs provide training to help you understand child development, how to set boundaries, and how to support a child's growth.

The process and Training Process

Once you contact your local program and express interest, you will fill out an process form. This asks about your background, why you want to volunteer, and what you can commit to. Be honest about your availability — programs match you based on what you can realistically do week after week.

Next comes the background check. The program will guide you through this. It typically takes two to four weeks. While that is happening, you may be invited to an orientation or interview where you meet staff and learn more about the children in the program and how matches are made.

After your background check clears, you will complete training. The Foster Grandparent Program requires an initial training session, usually one to two days, covering topics like child safety, communication, and how to support a child's learning. Some programs offer this in person; others offer it online or in shorter sessions. After training, you will be matched with a child, and a program coordinator will help you get your free guide.

What Happens After You Are Matched

Once you are matched with a child, the program coordinator will introduce you and help set up your first meeting. You will learn about the child's interests, any challenges they are facing, and what the child's parent, teacher, or caseworker hopes you will help with. The coordinator remains your point of contact throughout your volunteer service.

Your role unfolds naturally from there. You might pick a child up from school and go to the library, help with reading at home, attend a school event, or straightforward spend time talking and building trust. The specific activities depend on the child's age, interests, and needs. A program coordinator will check in with you regularly to see how the match is working and to answer questions.

If a match is not working — if the child and you do not connect, or if your schedule changes — you can talk to the coordinator about adjusting or ending the match. Programs understand that life changes, and they would rather help you find a better fit than have you struggle.

Time Commitment and Flexibility

The Foster Grandparent Program typically asks for 15 to 20 hours per week, though some programs are more flexible. This might mean three afternoons a week, or one longer commitment plus shorter visits. Ask your local program what schedule works for them and what would work for you.

If you have health issues, caregiving responsibilities, or other constraints, discuss them upfront. Some programs can work with part-time volunteers or those with limited availability. Others have a minimum they need to meet the child's needs. Being clear about what you can do helps the program match you fairly.

Many volunteers find that the time commitment becomes easier once they settle into a routine. Knowing that a child is counting on you to show up can be deeply rewarding, and many foster grandparents continue volunteering for years.

Stipends and Support

Many Foster Grandparent Program volunteers receive a small monthly stipend — amounts vary by location and program funding. This is not a salary; it is meant to help cover transportation, meals, and other expenses related to volunteering. Some programs offer this; others do not. Ask your local program whether a stipend is available.

Beyond money, programs provide ongoing support. You have access to a coordinator who can help troubleshoot challenges, answer questions about the child, and connect you with resources. Some programs offer continuing education, social events for volunteers, and recognition events. These connections can be valuable, especially if you are volunteering to stay active and engaged in your community.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do I need to have grandchildren of my own to be a foster grandparent?

No. Many foster grandparents have no grandchildren, or their grandchildren live far away. The program is open to anyone 55 or older who wants to mentor a child. Your own family situation does not matter.

What if I have a criminal record?

Contact the program directly and ask. Different programs have different policies, and some offenses are more disqualifying than others. Being honest upfront is better than having your process rejected later. The coordinator can explain what will and will not work.

Can I volunteer if I have limited mobility or health issues?

Yes, if your program can accommodate it. Some foster grandparents volunteer from home, help with reading or homework, or do activities that do not require extensive travel. Talk to your local program about what is possible given your situation.

How long does a foster grandparent match usually last?

Matches vary. Some last a few months; others continue for years. It depends on the child's situation, your availability, and how the relationship develops. The goal is consistency, so programs encourage long-term matches when they are working well.

What if the child I am matched with has behavioral problems or is difficult?

Program coordinators are there to help. They can offer information, connect you with training, or help you adjust your approach. Many children who need a foster grandparent have experienced loss or instability, so challenging behavior is common at first. Support and patience often make a real difference.